All Q&A questions about:

Relationships

How can I get my partner to trust me?

When your partner doesn’t trust you, it can be very painful and activate your own wounds. This can lead you to try to prove you are a good person.

How does enmeshment make you blind to incompatibility?

When you are incompatible but enmeshed, neither of you can be yourselves, because who you actually are becomes intolerable to the other person. So you hide who you are to get along, and expect the other to do the same. 

Can I love someone unconditionally and still leave them?

Yes. Unconditional love and unconditional engagement with someone are two different things.