An Exercise to Release Resentment

This is originally from AA, and was taught to me by my friend Sarah Dopp.

  1. Who am I resentful toward and why?
  2. What does this affect in my life?
  3. Am I willing to show this person the same tolerance, compassion, and patience that I’d give a sick friend?
  4. What’s my part in this situation? How did I add to it?
  5. Have I been telling myself that I’m right and they’re wrong?
  6. Am I using this sense of superiority to gain self-esteem or power?
  7. Am I doing this because I’m afraid that the “regular” me is not enough?
  8. They didn’t act right. What values could they have been acting with instead?
  9. How can I work on strengthening those values in my own life?
  10. I’m grateful that I have this obstacle to practice on.
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